Welcome and greetings on behalf of the brothers of The Great Commonwealth of Virginia. It is my absolute pleasure to welcome you to our informative site about the Men of Phi Beta Sigma in Virginia.

I am most humbled and honored to have been appointed by the Mighty Eastern Region as the State Director for Virginia. Virginia is a state rich in legacy, tradition, and history for the United States of America as to for Phi Beta Sigma. Many of our national presidents and regional directors are from Virginia chapters. Virginia boasts four chapters chartered before the year 1935.

Again, thank you for visiting our site and please don’t hesitate to contact us. We are here to serve!!!!!

Fraternally,

Devon M. Henry

On the campus of Norfolk State University
Sept 17-18, 2010

Congratulations to our new Associate Regional Director

Bro Dwayne Kwaysee Wright

In a better effort to serve the brothers across the Commonwealth, I am looking to engage more brothers and get them involved on the state level.

I am soliciting brothers to volunteer and serve on the state team in the following positions.

· Editor of “The Commonwealth Cause” – this brother will be responsible for collecting information across the state and formatting the data into an electronic news letter to be distributed monthly across the state.

· Bigger and Better Business State Liaison – this brother will be responsible for direct communication with the Eastern Regional Director of B&BB and conveying this information to all the chapters. In addition the brother should be able to field questions from chapters and provide programming ideas for his respective national program.

· Social Action State Liaison – this brother will be responsible for direct communication with the Eastern Regional Director of Social Action and conveying pertinent information to all the chapters. In addition the brother should be able to field questions from chapters and provide programming ideas for his respective national program.

· Education State Liaison – this brother will be responsible for direct communication with the Eastern Regional Director of Education and conveying pertinent information to all the chapters. In addition the brother should be able to field questions from chapters and provide programming ideas for his respective national program.

· Virginia License Plate Chair – this brother will be charged with continuing the valued efforts of Bro. Moultrie Glover, Bro. Kenneth Lewis, Bro. Elmer Seay and several other brothers who have attempted to garner the required signatures and appropriate money for Virginia to have its’ first license plate. The chair will have a committee comprised of collegiate and alumni brothers.

· Fundraising Committee Chair – this brother will be charged to create state wide fundraising opportunities/events to assist the state in providing scholarships for our collegiate brothers in addition to supporting brothers needing assistance to register for regional and national conferences.

Each position will have a collegiate brother working alongside the alumni in a co-owner capacity. The two should work together to be informative for both the alumni and collegiate chapters.

In the upcoming weeks, I will roll out a Sigma Mentor/Protégé program. The program will ultimately pair up collegiate brothers with alumni brothers that are working in their field of interest or study. We have already identified a number of collegiate brothers willing to participate and will soon be looking to match them up with alumni members that are committed to the Cause

We must continue to foster the relationships with our collegiate membership and be sure that they are graduating and understanding the realities of the real world.

Please distribute at your chapter meetings and email list serves. For brothers that are interested, please contact me directly via email, expressing your interest and skill sets that speak to your ability to be successful in the aforementioned positions. It is my desire to have the positions filled by March 15, 2010.

Your brother in service,

Bro. Devon M. Henry

Greetings Brothers of Virginia and West Virginia:
It is with great pleasure that we invite you to our first ever joint state conference, being held on Saturday, September 19th, 2009 at the prestigious Fairfax campus of George Mason University (GMU/Mason). The host chapters for this year’s conference are the Rho Tau Chapter (PT) and Theta Tau Sigma Chapter (ΘΤΣ). We are truly excited to have the opportunity to serve as your hosts and hope that you enjoy your brief stay in Northern Virginia.

The planning committee has been working diligently with the hopes of presenting the brotherhood with another successful and informative state conference! This year’s conference theme is “SIGMA: Developing the Brother…and the Brand.” In addition to the insightful workshops, speakers, and membership intake certification, there will be a team of nurses available to perform noninvasive procedures, such as cholesterol, blood pressure and body mass index checks. Additionally, just as last year we will be recognizing the collegiate and alumni brother of the year.

The campus administration/staff have committed to providing Phi Beta Sigma with its best accommodations and excellent customer service. Our meeting and related events will be held in the George W. Johnson Center. Additionally, the campus has undergone several exciting structural changes that well prove very beneficial to our conference. Named the #1 national university to watch by U.S. News & World Report, Mason is an innovative, entrepreneurial institution with global d istinction!

In the spirit of networking and brotherhood, we will be hosting a “kickoff” reception at the International/Corporate Headquarters from 7pm-10pm on Friday, September 18th, 2009. Brothers are encouraged to bring business cards to this event. As always, the success of our conference will depend on your attendance and “active” participation. We ask that you comply with the following directives in order to make your visit to Northern Virginia as stress-free as possible:

• Early-Bird Registration is the best and most cost effective way to partake in the 2009 Conference. The cost for early-bird-registration is $30, while on-site registration is $40. Continental breakfast, lunch, a parting gift, and a wealth of knowledge are all included in the registration fee.
• Read, complete and mail the registration form by the required deadline (Friday, 9/11/09).
• Come dressed in a “business” suit and be ready to actively and positively participate.
• Park in “LOT K” only, failure to do so will result in a very expensive parking citation.

On behalf of State Directors:
Brothers Devon Henry and Ken Daniel, the Virginia Leadership Team, and the conference host chapters we look forward to seeing you next month in Northern Virginia.

Congrats Bro. Henry! On behalf of your brothers in Virginia, thank you for all that you do for not only Sigma but also your community.

Brother Michael A. Ferby was initiated in our Fraternity in 1977 at the Alpha Alpha Alpha chapter of Virginia State University. While is engaging in his undergraduate studies Bro Ferby expressed his leadership skills early as he has held numerous positions including head officer Colligate Chapter President. Bro Ferby graduated Cum Laude form Virginia State University with a B.S. in Business Administration. Brother Ferby continues his support to his Alma Mater as an active member of the Virginia State University Alumni Association.

As a graduate life time member of our great fraternity Bro Ferby has held a variety of leadership roles while also serving on numerous committees within the state, region, and national arenas. Positions are as follows:

* Former, Assist Area Deputy Director, Northern Virginia Area
* Former Conclave Law & Revision committee, 2007
* Former, Regional Director of Education
* Former, Regional Director of Publicity
* Chaired, regional & Conclave Chapter Reports Committee
* Served on Regional, Time & Place Grievance Awards & Citations Committee
* Served on Conclave &Regional Conference Planning Committee
* Served as National Director of Publicity, Conclave 1995.

As a recipient of the Prominent Brothers Service Award Bro Ferby has helped our fraternity strive in the push and support of increasing membership by chartering the Rho Tau chapter of George Mason University, and assisting in Co-Chartering, the Xi Gamma chapter located at the University of North Carolina Chapel Hill. Brother Michael Ferby is currently serving as the immediate past president of the Theta Tau Sigma chapter, president of Club 100 Eastern Region, and chairman of the Credit Committee for the Phi Beta Sigma Federal Credit Union. Bro Freby continues to play as a prominent role model to the state of Virginia has he has greatly helped Virginia become one of the strongest states in the Eastern Region.

The Sigma Guide to Dining and Business Etiquette…..

Etiquette is defined as “the forms, manners, and ceremonies established by convention as acceptable or required in social relations, in a profession, or in official life.”

Times change and this affects the guidelines of etiquette. Common sense will typically be your best guide, but it is helpful to have some general ideas regarding dining and business etiquette.

DINING ETIQUETTE

It is important to know how to conduct oneself properly at the table. The rules of dining etiquette are fairly straightforward and mostly require common sense.

This handout will provide some basic information for your day-to-day experiences. There are many things to keep in mind when dining, but as always common sense should be your guide. When dining with a prospective employer remember it may look like lunch/dinner but it’s still business. The way you act during a meal will have impact on an interviewer’s hiring decision and your future.

GREETING

When meeting someone, rise if you are seated, smile, extend your hand and repeat the other person’s name in your greeting. A good handshake is important—it should be firm and held for three-four seconds. Today, in the business world it is not necessary to wait for a female to initiate the handshake. Females/males should both be ready to initiate the handshake.

INTRODUCTIONS

Introducing people is one of the most important acts in business life, yet few people know how to do it. Introduce a younger person to an older person; introduce a non-official person to an official person; and in business introduce the junior to the senior. Be sure to explain who people are and use their full names. Also do not assume that everyone wants to be called by his or her first name—wait until you are told to use a first name.

NAMETAGS

In many situations you will be wearing a nametag to identify yourself and your affiliation. Nametags serve an important purpose and should be worn on the right hand side of your front shoulder area. Do not clip nametags to the bottom edge of your jacket. Wearing the nametag on the right hand side of your shoulder immediately enables a person to see your name, particularly as you are shaking hands. If the nametag is one worn on a cord around the neck, be sure to adjust the length so it can be easily seen without the other person having to look down. If writing your own nametag, write in large clear letters that can be easily read by others.

RECEPTION/SOCIAL HOUR

Most receptions or social hours are for the purpose of mingling and making contacts whether for job leads, as part of an interview or an employee entertaining clients. When you enter the reception observe the layout of the room: is everyone standing; some cocktail rounds or tables for seating. Seeing the room layout gives you a clue on how to proceed at the reception.

If no tables are available, you should only have a drink or your food in your hand—never both. You should be prepared to greet and shake hands with individuals. If having a drink hold it in your left hand to keep your right hand dry and ready to shake hands. If eating hold your plate on the right hand and eat with the left hand. When someone approaches, you are able to switch the plate to your left hand and your right hand is clean and ready to shake. If tables are available you may have your drink and food together. However, always be ready to stand and greet people.

Networking and/or mingling are an important aspect of attending a business function even if the event is described as a social time. Be sure to greet or introduce yourself to the host/hostess. Spend a few minutes conversing with them on topics that relate to the event or to their business. To move on you can politely say I know you need to talk with your other guests. Connect with as many of the attendees as is possible. Do not interrupt people but wait until they include you or there is a break in the conversation and you can introduce yourself. To start conversations ask the person something about themselves or their job. You will find most people enjoy talking about themselves and this is a good way to begin a conversation. Do not be looking around the room for your next contact as you carry on a conversation with someone. Focus eye contact on that individual and after a time politely excuse yourself to move on to someone else.

DINING ETIQUETTE

It is important to know how to conduct oneself properly at the table. The rules of dining etiquette are fairly straightforward and mostly require common sense.

Table Setting. It can be very confusing to be presented with a variety of eating utensils. (See below) Remember the guideline “to start at the outside and work your way in.” If you have been given two forks, which are the same size, begin with the fork on the outside. Many restaurants use the same size of fork for both the salad and main course.

Napkin. When dining with others place your napkin on your lap after everyone at your table has been seated. Do not open your napkin in mid-air. As you remove your napkin from the table begin to open below the table level and place on your lap. If you must leave a meal, do so between courses, and place your napkin on your chair or to the left of your plate. When a meal is completed, place your napkin to the right of your plate – never on the plate.

Served. Wait for everyone at your table to be served before beginning to eat. However, if an individual who has not been served encourages you to begin eating, you may do so. Eat slowly while waiting for their food to be served.

Soup. When eating soup, think of making a circle: spoon away from you, bring around to your mouth and back to the bowl. Soup is taken from the side of the soup spoon –it is not inserted into your mouth. Do not slurp or make noises when eating soup.

Sorbet. This item is often served between courses to cleanse the palate. It is a light, sherbet texture and depending on when served may be eaten with a fork or a spoon.

Utensils. Be careful how you hold your utensils. Many people tend to make a fist around the handle of the utensil – this is the way a young child would grasp a utensil (not an adult). There are two acceptable ways to use the knife and fork: continental fashion and American standard. Continental fashion—the diner cuts the food usually one bite at a time and uses the fork in the left hand, tines pointing down, to spear the food and bring it to the mouth. American standard—a few bites are cut, the knife is laid across the top of the plate, sharp edge toward you, and the fork is switched to the right hand, if right-handed, tines up to bring the food to the mouth. (Do not cut more than two or three bites at a time.)

Dessert Utensils. Dessert utensils may be found placed across the top of the place setting. Place these utensils down for use after the main course is removed (fork to the left and spoon to the right).

Passing. Pass “community food” such as the breadbasket, salt and pepper, and salad dressing to the right. Always pass the salt and pepper together. When passing items such as a creamer, syrup pitcher or gravy boat, pass it with the handle pointing toward the recipient.

Seasoning. Always taste your food first before using any seasonings. Do not assume it needs to be seasoned.

Sweeteners. Do not be excessive with sugar or sweetener packets. The rule of thumb is no more than two packets per meal. Do not crumble the packets but partially tear off a corner, empty the contents and place to the side.

Bread. Bread/rolls should never be eaten whole. Break into smaller, more manageable pieces, buttering only a few bites at a time. Toast and garlic bread however may be eaten as whole pieces since they are usually already buttered. If you are served a piping hot muffin or biscuit, you may break in half crosswise, butter and put back together. However when ready to actually eat, break it into small pieces.

Glasses. A variety of types and sizes of glasses can be used throughout the meal. Remember your items to drink will be located in the area above your knife and spoon. Coffee cups may be located to the right of the knife and spoon.

Alcohol. Alcohol, if consumed, should be in moderation. In most cases you may have a drink during the social hour and wine(s) with the dinner. You do not have to finish your drink. In fact slowly sipping is recommended. If you do not want an alcoholic drink politely decline.

Buffets. Buffets provide an opportunity to select items you enjoy. Do not overload your plate. Select a balanced variety of food items.

Pre-Set Meals. With a pre-set meal the host/hostess has already made the selections and the individuals are served. If allergic, religious or vegetarian issues arise, quietly deal with these as the server is at your side. For vegetarian ask if you may have a vegetable plate; with allergies or religion provide the server with some options (ex. Allergic to shellfish—ask if they have cod or flounder and be ready with your preference). This lets the server know what you can eat. Always eat a little of all items served to you.

Ordering from Menu. As the guest select an item that is in the mid-price range, easy to eat and you will enjoy. Consider asking your host/hostess for a recommendation before making your decision. As the host it is helpful to take the lead in ordering appetizers and wine, if these are to be served.

Finished. When finished with a course, leave your plates in the same position that they were presented to you. In other words, do not push your plates away or stack them.

Guest. If you are someone’s guest at a meal, ask the person what he/she recommends. By doing this, you will learn price range guidelines and have an idea of what to order. Usually order an item in the mid price range. Also keep in mind, the person who typically initiates the meal will pay. Remember to thank them for the meal.

Restaurant Staff. Wait staff, servers, Maitre d’, etc. are your allies. They can assist you with whatever problem may arise. Quietly get their attention and speak to them about the issue.

BUSINESS ETIQUETTE

A good point to remember in business etiquette is everyone should be treated with equal courtesy and respect. Times have changed and some of the old standards no longer apply. Administrative assistants or office support staff are important people and should never be taken for granted. Treat them courteously in all your transactions. Treat people the way you wish to be treated. Gender no longer needs to be the deciding factor in everyday events. Business etiquette should be a give and take, to help each other when help is needed and have consideration for others. Good manners and business etiquette have always been based on common sense and thoughtfulness.

Punctuality. Be on time—no one wants to be kept waiting. If it is an unavoidable delay, try to contact the person. Keep in mind that you never know when you will encounter heavy traffic, wrecks, construction or other delays. Always allow extra time particularly if you are going to an interview. For interviews you should arrive 10-15 minutes before the interview time.

Smoking. Be aware of smoking policies. You should never smoke during an interview, at a meal or when you are aware that the other person’s pleasure does not include tobacco smoke.

Office Parties. Office parties are good opportunities to improve morale and build good will. Keep in mind these are people who see you every day and they will remember a lapse in behavior. Be aware of your alcoholic consumption and do not embarrass yourself. Do not discuss business—this is a social occasion and an opportunity to learn more about your co-workers.

COMMUNICATION

Telephone. Telephone manners are very important. Have a definite purpose for calling someone because telephone calls are an intrusion into their busy day. Identify yourself and speak clearly into the phone—never chew gum, eat, drink or smoke while using the telephone.

Voicemail/Answering Machine. If you encounter someone’s voicemail, state your name, organization, and reason for calling and slowly give your telephone number. Many people will leave a very good, clear message and then quickly rattle off their phone number. Voicemail is most efficient if you leave a concise but detailed message. Many times the person receiving the call will be able to get the information you need and leave that in their return call or message to you. Use voice mail wisely and efficiently. Always have a concise, professional greeting on your answering machine/voicemail.

Email. Email has become an important part of our communication and should be used in a professional manner. It can be a quick and effective means of communication. Always put identifying information in the subject line to help the individual receiving the message know what it is in reference to. The text box of the email message should begin with a salutation such as Dear Ms. Smith or Hello John depending on the relationship. After the salutation drop down to the next line to begin the message. Use complete sentences and appropriate capitalization and punctuation as you would use in a business letter. If needed you may have multiple paragraphs. The casual email correspondence you have with your friends is not appropriate for business. Do not use all caps in the message nor the symbols for happy faces, etc. Even if you have automatic signature on your email, you should still close the message (Ex. Thank you, Ann Smith). Remember to read your message through after you have written it and to run spell check before you click on the send button.

CULTURAL COURTESY

Cultural courtesy is becoming very important as more business is being conducted in and with foreign countries. Show appreciation and respect for the differences between our country and someone else’s. You should always be aware of these cultural differences in etiquette. Be sensitive to their rules of etiquette. If you are traveling overseas representing an American firm be very aware of the customs and culture of the country you are visiting. This can be very important to your business dealings. Research the customs and culture of the country with which you will have business transactions.

FIVE KEY WORDS

Remember five words that are too often neglected in business: Please, Thank You, and Well Done.
Social skills can help us build more productive relationships. In these changing times, one needs to prepare for a variety of encounters in both the business and social environments.

In 1983, following receipt of his Master’s degree, he moved to Tallahassee, Florida, where he served as a Woodrow Wilson Administrative Fellow for the Title III Programs at the Florida A & M University. He served as a statistician, where he analyzed and reported on retention data of students enrolled at Historically Black Colleges and Universities.

Dr. Lewis’ career journey has taken him from Florida A and M University, Tallahassee, Florida, to his Alma Mater, now Hampton University, where he would teach undergraduate courses in the Mathematics and Computer Science Department until the spring of 1986 and finally to the US Army Logistics Management College (ALMC), Fort Lee, VA, where for the last 22 years, he has served in the capacity of associate professor of Operations Research, Committee chief and interim department chair. He teaches a host of graduate level courses in probability, statistics, decision theory, inventory theory and other quantitative analysis courses to military and civilian employees of the all branches of the Department of Defense, and also to allied foreign officers attending those courses. As an associate professor of Operations Research, Dr. Lewis has had the opportunity to travel all over the US, Puerto Rico, Korea and Japan, teaching statistics and quantitative analysis type courses to military and civilian personnel. He received the ALMC Civilian Instructor of the Year Award in 1997 for excellence in teaching.

Dr. Lewis also teaches Statistics and Educational Research for the Graduate School of Virginia State University, Petersburg, VA. His commitment to teaching statistics and educational research has earned him the reputation as a great teacher at VSU. He provides statistical consultation to many students working on their master’s theses and doctoral dissertations. He serves as graduate faculty member for the Florida Institute of Technology Graduate program located at the USALMC, Fort Lee, VA. He teaches graduate Business Statistics, Decision Theory, Operations Management, as well as

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In the year 2001, Dr. Lewis was one of 13 worldwide Department of the Army personnel to participate in the Army’s Congressional Fellowship program. He worked on military affairs, appropriations requests, and other legislative issues for Congressman Bobby Scott, (D-VA), 4

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Dr. Lewis has dedicated his life to public service and education since he has returned home to Petersburg. He is a life long member of St. Stephen’s Episcopal Church, located in Petersburg, VA, where he has served as the church treasurer, lay reader, choir member, member of the vestry (governing body), delegate to many of the diocesan councils and recently he served as the Senior Warden from 2005 through the end of 2007, where he coordinated efforts for the church to celebrate its 140

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making sure that voice of AKS was heard at the regional meetings. He served as delegate to two conclaves, Dallas, 1999 and Charlotte, 2007. He served on the law and revision committee at the Dallas conclave. One of his AKS articles appeared in a 2005 edition of the Sigma Crescent Magazine.

Brother Lewis served as president and vice president of Alpha Kappa Sigma on and off for 10 years. He served a consecutive three year term as chapter president from 2005 through 2007. During that time he worked effortlessly to move the name of Phi Beta Sigma to the forefront of central VA in terms of it service related activities. Under his leadership, AKS has instituted an annual Awards Banquet, where the chapter recognizes three members of the local community for their contributions to the areas of business, education and social action. The chapter sponsors needy families during the beginning of the school year, Thanksgiving and Christmas. He continues to voice his concern about the Sigmas of Va having a license plate and will not rest until it happens. His enthusiasm for the fraternity has led to an increase in reactivation of inactive brothers as well as recruitment of new brothers. The AKS chapter helped establish one of the largest Sigma Beta Clubs under the leadership of the Brother James Spence during the presidency of Brother Lewis and it is still active. The AKS also hosts an ACT Test Taking Skills Workshop for high students who are interested in attending college. Brother Lewis constantly works to hold up the name of Sigma in his professional, public and personal life.